Learning to Be Late — Finding the Real Italy

Italy often appears through a polished lens, showcasing romantic coastlines and stunning views that allure travelers worldwide. While living in Italy permanently, I've found myself longing for an experience that dives deeper than the glossy surfaces often portrayed in media and social channels. I want to understand the true charm that lies in the subtleties of Italian life.

When I first settled in Italy, the concept of "time" was one of the differences I experienced. Coming from a more regimented culture, I found the Italian perspective on time something worth a thought. Appointments were flexible, dinners often began later than planned, and that quick “caffè” could easily turn into an hour-long conversation.

As I immersed myself in this lifestyle, I grew to appreciate its charm. Italians embrace the idea that life isn’t merely about ticking boxes and following schedules; it’s about enjoying connections, engaging in heartfelt conversations, and appreciating everyday life around us. While dinners can start an hour later than expected, they often result in laughter and stories shared over food and wine, marking a moment that no clock can define. These evenings are more than just meals; they are glimpses into the soul of Italian life.

Connection takes precedence over the clock

Learning to accept being “late” reflects the idea that the most beautiful moments often come when we slow down. Each delay can open doors to unexpected pleasures—like lingering in a café with a breathtaking view or having a spontaneous conversation with a local. When clients embrace this perspective, they frequently fall in love with the lifestyle, finding something beyond just the property and general idea of Italy.

Living in Italy means understanding its unique cultural nuances. Some of the most profound lessons come from embracing differences. For many of us, getting used to Italian timekeeping is not just an adjustment; it’s an invitation to a new way of seeing life.

Embracing being late sometimes

Once I fully understood the beauty of being late myself—because of a dinner that ran longer than expected, or a quick stop at the food market turned into an Italian lesson with a local, or a short walk to my car turned into a 20-minute chat with my neighbor—I could finally let go of the expectation that others turn up in time to meet me.

In a world that often prioritizes speed over substance, the Italian lifestyle invites us to celebrate the beauty of being present. As a personal property shopper, I enjoy guiding my clients on their journey not only to find a house but to embrace Italy's true essence—a country rich in history, culture, and relationships.

Learning to be late is not just about adjusting your watch; it’s about opening your heart to life’s rhythm. So, as you embark on your journey toward finding a home in Italy, remember that sometimes the best moments arise when we pause and take a breath. Explore, connect, and embrace the richness of our differences and keep an open mind for learning something new.